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Okay, I (28f) went over to my boyfriend’s (25m) home for the primary time (been courting a few month), and I had one way or the other by no means seen his pillow scenario earlier than. Once I seen, I made a remark about how lengthy he’s had the pillows and apparently he’s been utilizing them since he was a child. So, I requested him if he had another pillows and he mentioned he simply had the pillow on the left of the primary image, however that his cat normally sleeps on it. I mentioned I don’t actually need to sleep on these pillows, and id favor to sleep at my very own place (with clear pillows). His response? He waited for a minute after which mentioned he could be unhappy to see that I’d select one thing as small as pillows come between us spending the night time collectively, however that if I wanted to go, that he understood. I ended up going dwelling and spending the night time at my very own home as a substitute. I requested if I might convey my very own pillows and gently advised he eliminate his. He mentioned it was completely fantastic for me to convey a pillow, however that he wouldn’t eliminate his, as they’re ‘sentimental’. Ideas? I really feel like I can’t even kiss him or something whereas we’re sleeping as a result of I don’t need him to get his gross pillowness throughout me and my clear pillows. 😂 submitted by /u/plantsandpoison to r/AmIOverreacting |