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So for context: I went on a date with him on Saturday and it was very nice. That is the primary date I’ve been on in over a yr. I’ve been actually bored with relationship since my final LTR ended poorly. I’ve been out of the relationship scene and he appeared candy, so I figured it was price a shot. We’re classmates and can more than likely have lessons collectively sooner or later as a result of we’ve got the identical Main. We had an enduring telephone name the night time after our date and he dumped some fairly heavy life stuff on me (trauma), nevertheless it was cool with me and I welcomed it though it appeared fairly early on to do this (imo). That’s what he’s referring to when he talks about oversharing. He had been a bit of overbearing as soon as earlier than, nevertheless it didn’t bug me in any respect. This night time specifically, I had been out with pals and didn’t get dwelling till fairly late. When I’m with my pals, I hardly ever examine my telephone and I didn’t take the time to learn by is paragraphs and reply every query individually, which spurred extra paragraphs and questions (even tho he stated he understood that?). I’m not a lot of a social butterfly, so I used to be already feeling fairly drained. He simply stored speaking, even after I advised him I needed to sleep. One thing about how paranoid and overbearing he’s when we’ve got solely gone on a single date rubs me the mistaken method and I don’t suppose I need to see him once more. Am I being a bitch? I really feel responsible. Do you suppose this might be repeated habits and will I cease seeing him? If that is what relationship is like, I’m not positive I’ve the power for a relationship. submitted by /u/Instructional-Job-7276 to r/AmIOverreacting |